Nobody wants to come into a relationship with what they see as baggage. Still, sometimes things happen to us that we have no control over. Like when people around you lose sanity and you have to hold on to yours lest it slips away too. I grew up using the term crazy losely. To me, […]

Of nighties and nine o’clock tea. I am fat. With chubby arms and a visible pot belly. My thighs are thick and I stand at around 5’5 or 5’6. I have cellulite and stretch marks. A messy combination. My hair is weird and I talk too fast. Sometimes my left tit aches and I hope […]

She’s just not the normal size. Her arms are thick and her bust is full. She talks about how she would be so happy if she didn’t have bigger tits. She does hate them. If anything, she is so damn proud of them. They are just, big. In a way she didn’t expect. She loves […]

She toys with her food. She has barely eaten despite knowing how I feel about food wastage. “Eat.” I command albeit in a soft tone. She stares at me for a minute or two, her mind working fast. Finally, she takes her plate and begins munching on her fries. I let out a sigh of […]

This is a fat black girl’s guide to facesitting. A little unconventional but yes. If you have never sat on anyone’s face, I suggest you do so before die. Under the right tongue that is. I am Afrika. 5’6, weighing around 66kgs. I also love face sitting. A lot. It’s pleasurable. It’s intense. It’s dirty […]

My first queefing experience. I know it’s Christmas and most of you are at home with families and that’s okay but again, that’s none of my business, we are gonna talk about sex. If you have to go to the bathroom to read this article, it’s okay. Let’s talk about queefing. When this happens to […]

What happens when your abuser is a woke radical feminist cum human rights activist in a queer activist space both of you share? As a person who has heard stories of abuse of all ages, myself included, I find it difficult to learn from other activist women (I’ll speak for women here) are being abused […]

How much is too much? What happens when she says no? Both of you have been preparing for this all day; flirty messages, subtle hints here and there and then suddenly when the time comes, you start kissing her and she says she is not ready. She is not feeling it. What do you do? […]

Via the guardian. “There have been at least six incidents of mob violence against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people in Kenya since 2008, Human Rights Watch and fellow rights organization Pema Kenya revealed recently. The local police failed to investigate any of them. Sadly, this is unsurprising. It is the foreseeable and tragic […]