Queefing is normal. Can we do better in 2019?

My first queefing experience.

I know it’s Christmas and most of you are at home with families and that’s okay but again, that’s none of my business, we are gonna talk about sex. If you have to go to the bathroom to read this article, it’s okay.

Let’s talk about queefing. When this happens to you for the first time, it can be so damn embarrassing and easily confused with actual fartinging during sex but it’s not.

Before I rant about my first queefing experience, let me tell you what a queef is.

A little bit of air that gets caught in a woman`s vagina. Sometimes it happens during or after intercourse especially for people who like to get it from the back: ass up, face down.

Also babes, queefing happens because you just have a vagina and it is not something to be embarrassed about. It doesn’t mean having a “loose pussy” as men love to say for even women who’ve never been dicked down/penetrated experience queefs. It can also happen when you walk because of the space in between your legs. It literally happens to anyone with a vagina.

So there was this time someone was going down on me and they decided to eat it from the back. Lol. Here I am, all postioned. Ass up, face down when I feel my vagina suck in air and the next thing I know, a loud farting sound comes from no where. It took me a while to realise that this sound was actually coming from my yoni and this caused me deep embrassment and shame.

To make matters worse, it didn’t stop until I switched position but at that point, the damage was already done. I carried with me this experience that I thought was shameful until I came across the word queefing.
Maahn. Reading helps alot. If I didn’t read about it, I would still be here thinking I farted not once but several times during sex with my partner’s face in between my legs like who does that?

Anyway, farts are normal and so are queefs. This holiday ukiamua ni ass up face down na uskie ka sauti kanatokea kwa yoni please know that it’s okay.
Haya. Go back to giving your relatives stress.
©Nyar Afrika 2018.

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